Okie So I am back . and surprisingly not here to talk about politics, country, state, duties, rights cos someone told me that SOMETIMES I really need to slow down.
So Here I am talking about plain simple life .
Well, the past year and a half has been quite a turmoil because of my personal life, why? Umm, I really don’t care ;)
You always hear the phrase that “Bad times teach you a lot in life” but I always thought it was a humbug till last year.
The following lines are NOT in order to hurt feelings and sentiments of people involved but if you still do, I kinda don’t give alligator’s arse :p
I always followed newton’s third law of motion in life, “When life hits, hit it back”
But I never thought that life wouold hit me in the face SO bad that getting back up would be so hard.
But the, then Life happened and so did maturity and sense.
So when life gives you a punch quite close to that of Myke Tyson’s , here’s what you gotta do .
- Break it to yourself that you have been knocked down, take some inspiration from Mountain dew kyunki darr sabko lagta hai . NEVER, I repeat NEVER tell yourself that everything will be fine cos lets face it, there’s a problem and its NOT asexual that it will do itself. You gotta solve it and the only way to do it is to KNOW that there’s one.
- Understand the reason for it, don’t worry if its because of your best friend OR the one you loved from every nook of your heart, Because, no matter how miserable you feel, people have gone through worse AND survived.
- CRY. Yes, I really do mean it. There is NO point in stopping that bundle of emotions within you, Crying does not make you weak, it just proves that you’ve been strong for a very long time. When people tell you, please don’t cry- Punch them , well not literally :p
- Don’t be ashamed of being gullible. Sometimes, you may feel that you are losing that lone part of yourself being self respect. But it does not! Yes it hurts when you’re ignored. I went through it like 50 times a day and I am NOT ashamed of it. You know why? Because, today I stand here with my head heal high as I know that it wasn’t worth it and I wouldn’t have known it if I did not try.
- If revenge is on your mind, it somewhere down the line means that you know you were wrong. If you are right you do NOT need a revenge.
Just ALWAYS remember , “KARMA IS A BITCH” .
So sit back, enjoy the show! Even if it comes late, it will definitely come to you.Shit, that reminds me I have to wait for a month to watch ready L
-Never forget the ones who were there when you called them at 3 in the morning, saw you in the ultimate devdas mode, saw you in messed up kaajal;running nose;messy hair and awful smell, heard you say “tu ye mat samaj ki mujhe charh gayi hai” after you were three khambaa’s down.
- Ya that’s all but you know what you can opt for ignoring ALL that I wrote before but just be with me on this, no matter WHAT you do, go ahead become a nimpho, drink, smoke, puke, scream, cry, date someone else as a bound back, hook up with some stranger at the bar. Like do WHATEVER you feel like
BUT
Do not regret it later.
Because the only reason that I am still smiling, okie yes, smiling way too much today after an year and a half is that because I don’t regret what happened an year and half year back.
Someone, something, somebody that made you smile and sing anytime in your life need not be regretted cos it happened for a reason.
And if you STILL don’t get it, which is not possible. But if you’re REALLY a rebel, the here’s what you gotta do .
Look at him, look at yourself and do the calculations J
