Just because we are girls?

They are being killed, They are being killed even before they are born and if not so they are brought across a situation which is worst than death,numerous names-molestation,rapes,innocent murders,list is just endless.
Why? Just because THEY are girls?

Dont believe me? Just open any newspaper and you will find a justification to my post.
Which newspaper?- ANY!
What date?-ANY!
But ya try and look for it properly. You see a girl's dignity is less important than which team is leading in IPL or if 'bebo' has size zero or not or probably whats the next no. of packs Mr.Shahrukh Khan is interested in.
JUST because they are girls!

We are not a subejct,we are not dolls,we are NOT for the public.
Why do we have to think before getting out of our homes,why do we have to watch out for the way we dress,why is prostitution just for girls,why do we have girl stripping pubs(mostly).Why do we have to be scared when working latenight.
Just because we live in an era where some desperate nimphos are roaming around? For all those - Go help yourselves if the urge is unstoppable!

Ever blamed a girl and JUST the girl saying " look what her parents taught her,the boy must have got carried away" when you found her with her boyfriend in their intimate time? That's us.
I am not saying that we dont have girls who too think like this but WHY?
Why is it always us?
Just because we are girls.
Just seeing Priyanka Chopra in "why should boys have all the fun?" wont change our position in society.
Trust me guys, its not just with lower class men BUT with all of you! You see hot chicks and you are in your imagination world. The ones who disagree,leave the habbit of lying to yourself atleast.
We are born and are brought up the same way as guys out there are, if we are our daddy's princesses that does not mean we are everybody's fantasy art.
We are not dumb but yes, with everything going around us if you want us to stay numb that's clearly impossible.
Yes, it is the 21st century and women has grown in society but just because she has, does not give you a right to assault the one's who havent.
Why are the most rape cases reported to be with girls living in slum, just because she cant raise her voice against the 'rich' and 'cool' boys?
Just because we are girls?

Even when case of drunk girls come up , we say "it was the girl's fault" I say - WHY ??
Even if she was , who gave the right to those stud boys to assault her.
Does that mean that that bunch couldnt control their urge ?
And if it really is so , as I said Go help yourselves!
Nobody thinks before saying " she shouldnt have been drunk"!
My question is if she wasnt supposed to then why were the guys ?
Just because we are girls?

The Mangalore incident is not hidden from anybody. They were beaten up ending up with tattered clothes or even no clothes just to restrict them to the parameters that our culture has set .. Did anybody try and tell them that they are talking about the same culture which refers to females as purity and Godesses.
I have never heard of purity being assaulted like that .
Did they forget that if the culture sees women as a mother who should'nt be sitting at a bar is the same culture which depicts a man as a father. A child, when born looks at both ,a mother and a father for their future thats where the word 'parents' came from but just blaming everything on the mother has always been the key solution .. so what do we do? We continue with the tradition .. then just grant me this wish by beautiful people. Dont boost about the 'We can change India" notion .
BECAUSE WE CANT!
Like this ? I am sorry .. we are nothing but a shamefull bunch that has not done anything ever!
You guys out there. Trust me if you cant respect a girl,female,women , Life will never respect you no matter how much you try to .
But what is the whole agenda about?
Even if this all stops . one thing wont. Male domination!
Be it anything, marriage,hook-up,one night stand,relationship,commitment. The key point is Male domination!
IT JUST CANT CHANGE...




or can it?
Can we TRY to change it, can we try and look at women like we look ourselves(guys).
Promise one thing to yourself, next time you witness any assault, try and stop it.
Next time you come accross any article of something alike, react to it! Not by turning the page but by writing. Writing to the newspaper or to this post. We can change a Girl's position in society and we already have but not for all .
Lets make India as secure for girls as it is for guys and not give any girl a chance to accuse her nation by saying
Just because I am girl?


Guys, lets Rock It!

Politics-The bitter truth.

Have you ever come across the line "It just happens in politics".
I am sure all of us do and that too everyday! But the fact is that we all are players..Players of this so called dump yard called Politics and guess what we rock at it.
Everybody wants to be and is politically correct and why not? Who wants to be in a trouble anyway?Who should take the responsibility of being honest yet not politically correct?
Not me ? Right ?
The issue is not of plating politics,the issue is of blaming the politicians for the nasty play .
The big question being . why the hell not ? If we do it then why not the ones who are meant to .
Thats the reason they are called politicians..arent they ?
Just saying "I want to be in politics not to change anything but just to gain some experience" is so not gonna help you dude .!Politics can do without educating you and adding to your experience.
"One person can bring about a change" - CRAP!
No ! wake up and the smell the coffee, If you genuinely want to bring about certain changes, dont walk alone like cowards..walk with thousands of believers because if you cant convince those thousand, you can never convince those millions of people staring at you with million more questions in their mind.Dont just be ready to point that finger on anybody, rather try and understand the plight,the situation. Nobody wants to be called "A politician" . Today, ask yourself. WHY ?
Whats the harm. ?
Just one.! Right now you play politics and call it honesty (manipulative enough eh? ) and there you need to be open about it because thats what it asks for .
We're nothing but a bunch of cowards.. you,me, everyone! We just want to hide that so assumed negative point of ours. Be upfront..be daring..be loud,so loud that the country can hear you .
Politics is not just about winning the elections,spending lakhs on the campaigns;boards;banners;pamphlets.
It is not about pulling up rallies for your party,blocking the roads for your own good and then fining people who break traffic rules because it causes nuisance on roads. That is not what it is supposed to be guys,its what now it is subjected to .

Understand India,Love India, Lead India.
We can change it and we will. I am not going to walk alone, I have my mini youth India with me.
Rest is upto you!

Take it OR fight it!

But,next time you bump into somebody who says "Ye sab toh politics me hota hai yaar,wahi hai corruption ki roots" , just ask them one question :
Agar bura hai,toh bura banke dekho.
Corrupt hai toh ek baar corrupt hokar dekho.
Politicians se nafrat hai to khud politician banke dekho.
Unke tareeko se shikayat hai to apne tareeke banaake dekho.
Sirf banaake nahin,Unhe nibhaake dekho.
Ek baar,Khud Hindustan chalaake dekho.


-by the youth,from the youth,for the youth!

Things to remember .

Some dos and donts while you're in the Gurudwara :
Now that its been long that I've been regularly going to the gurudwara(Have no clue how..pheww),there are certainly some points that need to be taken under observations.They might seem funny but trust me..they are surely gonna be of a lot of help ;)

Dos:
1.Please wear something that covers the back when you kneel down cos even if you've got the perfect curves,the aunts there wont be quite eager and satisfied to see those.
2.If you cant arrange for the long ones everyday (ask the sufferers) while kneeling,remember to hold them from the back or it'll be done by some very dis-satisfied aunt around.(as if we're gonna marry her son).
3.Try and get a hold on what's being said in the lines you hear in there.Sometimes they do explain a lot of things.
4.If you're searching for peace,carry a book with you and read it there itself.Believe me,its the best thing you can do to freshen up yourself.
5.Tell your friend that you're going there so that you don't end up listening to "You never have time when we call you".

Donts:
1.Do not carry your freaking cell phones with you !!!!!! Or at least keep them on silent and if you cant do that please don't show your gratitude by coming there .Gurudwara can do without you people.
2.Never DARE to ask your grandparents about the history of the gurudwara.Trust me.you'll soon lose interest in the history and in coming there again.(Experience)
3.Deep neck linings(for girls) are a complete no-no.
4.Pull up the jeans man ! and try and fold them too . I mean we need not prove the phrase "daag ache hain" do we ?Or to prove the power of Rin,Tide or washing powder Nirma(Thora sa powder aur jhaag dher saara..k wateva)
5.Dudes! Get a life and try not to stare girls around you.Dont show the typical nature atleast there..k.

The universal one --> Try and be shut . You can show your Karishma like attitude when you're outta the place :P

So Keep praying and remember: Its not that God's not listening,Its just that he wants us to decide about our omen irrespective of what it brings along.
Because even pure gold is termed to be so after being tested.

The Good Times.

So finally blogging after ages.
The reason I am is cos i so want everybody to know how it feels when you give THE LAST boards written sheet to the invigilation team and you step out of that door and seee bck saying "Asta laveista baby".
Oh God,It is heavenly.
When you put that last dot,when you know that you wont remember a thing when you go back home.When you await your parents to take that sigh of relief,when you know that you whole day about which you started planning before the starting of the exams..Its next to saving yourself from yet another sin.
One day..you awaited since always..when you said"OMG when would it come" and you are living it.
I dun know how my month passed all i know that how my night did tossing n turning and thinking what all will be going around my head when i'll give the sheet.
I always hated boards(very evident from the previous post) but if thats what you feel after giving them .. I can give thousands of them just to re-experience this feeling.
When you know that your mum n dad have lost all the rights to refuse for an outing.
Its just been around 48 hours that it happened and in these 48 hrs,I possible did everything I couldnt in the whole 1 year
Partying,Vodka-ing,laughing so loud that I forgot what tears mean,spending awsum time with friends,going crazy clicking pictures,talking for HOURS ova the phone,having world's he most amazing food n desserts,putting nail paints and changing them a much too often and yes not to forget sleeping as if there's no tomorrow .
Though the school reopens a bit too early..I am happy.
I've been dying to bunk those classes,make fun of the not so polite teachers,sitting and listening music in the canteen,bullying friends,taking those taunts from the guys going like "Koi aur nai mila tha",sitting on the tables,whistling in the corridoors,chewing gums thought you know how your teachers hate it.I miss it..I love it
I AM GOING BACK TO IT !
Now who says that we hate school..who says we hate exams..When the experience after these exams is like a cherry ova the cake and yes! The best cakes ;)

So keep dreaming guys .. cos these dreams are fulfilled and if it takes time..
Sweetheart something **Amazing..!** is coming your way .:D

LEAD INDIA

Ever slept without food and the reason not being that you were too stuffed cos of the heavy lunch or hangout with friends but because of a genuine reason being cos you had no food left.
Ever thought of spending a night in a chilly weather of December not without that blanket but without a shelter and a roof to save from that drizzle
No,its not I am here to give you nightmares or maybe it does not matter to you neither did it do to me TILL the day I met some people who have gone through all this.
Some children who don't know what the word "Parents" actually means cos for them it was the lonely street where they found themselves,they street dogs were there only friend and where working all day long for that 10 rupee note was relevant because their tender and small bodies wanted food to survive BUT sleeping,eating,walking,speaking aint life.
There's a lot that life needs.
It does need a smile,being sure that yes,we do have someone to whom we can turn when we cry but for some,these things don't exist!
One person can not change the world but the world together can change the mindset.
Join hands because sitting in your conditioned rooms,watching your favorite DVD,popping in your delicious tit bits,sipping the sodas and drinks,smiling always cos you have friends to hold you when you fall,sleeping peacefully cos you know that you do have your parents to take care of you and just everything else you might be doing now,may not be enough for you and it never is but do remember it might be a dream or not even that for about 1/3 of the population.
And then,please don't give statements like "Our country will never change" because a change never comes on its own .. A change needs to be brought and that,is so not JUST the government's duty cos the Government is nothing but a sleeping soul..The infrastructure shall never change till the time the people fight for it and NOT get used to it
Walking by a beggar n saying..poor soul! wont help damned it !!
It wont solve problems and wont change things .. There has to be something Big.And it will happen .! We shall do that
LEAD INDIA !! Cos just saying that this golden bird is blind now isn't gonna change nething till we do it .
Think how lucky we are and try to make as many people feel the same.
If it fails once that doesn't mean that we weren't meant to do this . It means that God is giving us a chance to show that we are better . WHICH,we surely are !
Stand up and let the country awake cos we might not be the best generation but we surely are a better generation .
A young India shall do what hasn't happened till date cos being a teenager doesn't only mean those baggy jeans,those funky shoes,junk jewelery,cigarette in hand and everything to which we are always subjected to . But,we are the future India and we shall Rock it. And kick every possible obstruction aside. Lets Rock Guys .!

Being Single..

My take on "Why is being single ANY DAY better" ..
(A tablespoon of fact and a pinch of experience)

1. Not answerable to anybody in this freaking world.
2. When you cry,the reasons is because you scooped your happiness out and not cos "oh shit! he/she didn't call me since 15 mins.. OMG.
3. When it rains,it means "Its raining..JUST" and nothing else for God sake.!
4. When you go out for a bash your eyes are around to find good looking guys/gals and not on your phone's screen. that see ! He/she did not reply .. They do not care.*Sob Sob*
5. Calling your best friend does NOT mean thats it because you faught with Mr/Ms perfect.Your friend can live without knowing that and more happily.
6. Your own panges arent enough that you cry cos he/she are having some family problems.
Dude! Their life..Their business Stop irritating!!
7. Questions like "Where are you"? With whom are you ? Why ? When? Kab kese kahaan blah! Don't give a freaking sh** to you.
8. When you click pics (Girls) for that Mr. Perfect!! aarghhh Women! You are self obsessed. Do it for your God Dame self ! [Remember the applications like "flirtable","Interested?" with hot guys.. Lol]
9. When you can sleep without that tear in your eye.{Is it getting emotional ? Duh !}
10. When Valentines day is yet another day AND nothing else ! Puhlease!!
11. As if remembering and buying gifts for those trillions"Happy Birthdays" was not enough that the new era made a new thing called "Relationship Anniversary".
Ya Y NOT ! We arent Married..Nor do we plan to. Get a Life .. aaaaaaarghhhhhhh
12. Loving yourself is the first priority *Wow*
13. Yes,now you can stop thinking about how Correct I am.. I know Darling ! ;)
14. You can sleep whenevr you want rather than pleading them on the hone .. That oh I am going now .. pleaseeee.
D--uh. What ??? A "please" to sleep .. Ya you can plead your parents for letting you sleep even if you know that tom is your board exam and you're flunking anyway :P
15. When not all "Kyun..Why..Kaiko" have an answer !
16. When slow songs just remain Slow Songs and are not titled as "Sad" Songs.
A day will come when such lovebirds would call Snoop dog a gazzal singer. :O
17. Yes ! I can buy myself gifts on Valentines Day for God sake . So the next you meet me at Archies don't raise your eyebrow and say "Oh! I didn't know that you were dating someone".
I love myself ! You've got issues dude ?
18. Singing love songs DOES NOT mean that I am in love .. [Shruti ! You understand now ??]
19. Remember that bestie of yours ? With whom you could share anything and just everything without thinking what they would think about it and you used to call them an idiot and respect was one thing they never got.. Yes that one !
They're your bf/gf now !!.
Now you know why you lost that bestie . Congrats !
20. You have better things to do than keep on eye on their phone calls,Phone book,Friend Circle Accounts and what not.
21. The calls begin with "I love you" they end with "I love you"..
yea ! Y not ,your dad wont love you darling when he sees that LONG bill of yours and when you go like OMG dad nahin! ye galat hai..
22.When they say 10 mins .. They NEVER mean it .
When they say BRB .. They NEVER come back .
When they say g2g..ohh yes they do mean it . lol

*Will Keep adding as I keep feeling luckier each day*
Being Single=Being Happy
LiVe It..!LoVe It..!LeArN FrOm It..!

The CBSE Boards Nightmare.

A nightmare which is just a month away now .


THE Boards !

• Firstly,you get subjects for a month or so on the basis of your "Pre boards" which is a WTF situation.

• Then,teachers check the paper and scare the hell out of every student as if we're going for a kargil war.And upon all the family starts scaring and wishing you for it before 4-5 months of it .Which,again is a WTF situation.
• Plus when you go online to get some relief you find yourself in the world's biggest mess where half your friends ask you what all you have done and half of them cant stop wishing you.Which again is a .. never mind !
  

• The school gives you an assembly (just for the 10th grade) to wish you "all the best " .. and you are called to school JUST for it when all this is possible by sending a card on the not so official school website which is under maintenance 300 days a year.

• And to add to the miseries you have a man made creation know as "TUTORS" who are alive just to scare the freaking hell out of you and specially the Bihari ones (ask the sufferers) who keep going on like "hain.." after undoubtedly every line.
  

• Sound sleeping is a dream and even if it comes true then all you dream about is the "pie" running after you or even worst you studying hindi without a guide or maybe Gandhi asking you to adopt the path of non violence,someone please tell this guy that he's DEAD !

• THE CBSE SAMPLE PAPERS: As if things were perr-fect,these white pieces of paper are devastating in nature..mark the words !! And every now and then the phone rings and you annoyingly go like..aur bata the reply as such is -> "Nothing yaar,just solved the sample papers..tune kiye kya ? Dude ther are horrible"[YES! I could have lived without knowing that..thanks and get LOST]

• You miss the farewell..The final goodbye to your friends whom you wont see like you used to .. Just cos your beeeped up tutor dint wanted to shift the class.Go die Bihari !
• And everything else if asked..The answer is "Ya .. you may but after the boards"..WHY ? Did the pandit ji and bhaiji(sikhs) told you that if I go to Goa or out with friends during February,Then these things would destroy themselves or would be hit by aliens..Man! I miss jadoo in such situations. Dhooooop.
  

Now, how about discussing some of the very justified and recognized criteria of the subject pattern of "The DPS Mathura road".Here are some streams and an idea to WHY my frustration has acquired new heights.

1. PCM (Physics-Chemistry-Maths)+English core+Comp.science/phy. edu./economics
Criteria to take this subject being : Maths-80% science-80%
One freaking question..If any masoom kid wants to go for Comp. Engineering[cos your parents and brother dont want you to take up commerce as if after taking science,Einstein's theory would be named after yours..aaaaaa] for their livelihood How the F*** is chemistry or physics or even maths needed ????

2. PCMB (Physics-Chemistry-Maths-Biology)+English core
I don't have anything else to say .. God bless the souls of the ones who are taking it..amen !

3. PCB(Physics-Chemistry-Biology)+English Core+Psycho/phy edu/painting/multimedia and web tech designing
Criteria : Science-80% Maths-75%
Ahem .. even if you dun wanna study maths in the future,bang your head agnst the wall cos you need to score that much.
Its like forcing the butcher to take guitar or violin classes. ! D--UU--H.

4. Commerce+Maths+English core+Accountancy+Business studies+Economics:
Now,I and mama call it the money generating stream..lol BUT still I cant go for it..cos my first aim should to be in a good stream coz (Arts-only arts,commerce-only arts and accountancy but Science-everything) according to some very wise sources.
hmmm so Bye-Bye banking..Bye-Bye money(dun worry sweetheart you n me have a never ending relation and that is a promise) :D

5. Commerce without Maths:English core+Accountancy+Business studies+Economics+Pshycology/Phy. edu./Painting/Inf. practices/Entrepreneurship/Multimedia and web tech designing.
Don't get me wrong but this can be called as a "Sasta Kifaiti aur Tikaoo offer" . I mean dude !!
Criteria- Maths-60% SST-70%
AND in that much you get a hell lot of subjects and that too SUCH (It took me 5 mins to spell En-Entre-Entrepren-Entrepreneur..Blah!)

6. Humanities With Maths: English core+Maths+Political Science+History/Hindi+Economics/Geography+Psychology/Multimedia and web tech designing*
No criteria .. its to save you from saying "Oh! I got no stream mum n dad.. Thats why Its my love ! *Wink*

7. Humanities Without Maths:
Mum-Dad I am still in school .. Yes! I am .. dont ask me how and what stream ? Just, I AM .

So,
Dear Mr. nightmare,
you are invited tonight too and do come with some extra not known guests like Mr.Tension,Mr. Headache and ya do remember to bring Mr.Sleepless Nights as the party isn't complete without him.
Yours Lovingly
Karishma :)

Blueline Protest March.

Killer Machine.

--> The petition against blueline buses took the face of The protest followed by students of different schools which was held on 21/01/08,Monday at Jantar Mantar.

























--> The motive wasn't to be against the blue line but it was to make the Government and The administration aware that the public isn't sleeping and is aware of everything that is going around.
We were speaking for the student who was killed by a speeding blue line bus in Noida.What was possibly his fault ? That he though he was well protected on the roads of the capital.He lived in hostel ,his parents in Ghaziabad.
Imagine what his parents went through when they were told about their little prince's death and were asked to come and take his body.
And this all cos the Government doesn't care how blue line drivers are driving.
Not a bus but a killer machine.



























--> Though the start wasn't that good,quite few people were seen but as time passed,people joined,college students,peons,pedestrians and everyone who could join,joined !



























--> Shouted our guts out ..Stopped each and every blueline that passed..Deflated tyres..Gave caps to all the drivers.
And yes with lack of modesty .. WE ROCKED BIG TIME !


























--> Our slogans(naara) included:
Blueline ko band karo,aaj karo abhi karo ..!
Taare zameen par kuchle gaye ..! Blueline nahin bloodline ..!
Blueline..HAYE HAYE ..!!



























--> Explained the cops what we really wanted and would like to thank them for their help and guidance..
The media coverage,NDTV,CNN IBN and the newspaper clipping in Dainik Jagran,Page3 .(Media rocks)



























--> It started at 1:30 pm - 3:30pm , The best 2 hours of every dipsite who was envolved.
Our voice was heard ! and thats what each citizen is entitled to,Just one thought if guided propery cn be heard.

.........""So guys Think ! AND think Big !"".........

A salute to my parents..

THATS US


Some lines we are so used to .. Some quotes we love.
Some quotes we think are just so normal..yeah.They so are I mean whats wrong with them
The casual attitude.A blog can't change opinions .. I knw that But this one promises to be a mirror showing the real US.


-->Our dad dropped us to a place which was a hour or so four my place.W thanked him by smashing the door and saying "Thanks dad ! I am late cos of you..will call when I want to get back and please dont be late again".
-->Our mum took 3 long hours to prepare a dish for Us,We thanked her by saying"What kinda shit is this..mum you never enter that kitchen,why do you even try..Order me a pizza for God sake".
-->The plate on the dinner table wasn't clean and out of rage we thrashed it on the floor even when we know it isn't our mum's job job to clean it.
-->It is sometimes so easy for us say "mum you don't care.." when we know that she waits for us when we are out,waits for us for the supper and cried with us when we cry.
-->It was so easy for us to snatch that remote and say "mum all you do is watch tv" when we know how much she fought with dad to convince him for that tv.
-->We were the one who went up to our mum and were sweet to her once in our lifetime just cos I wanted to go for shopping but it was so easy for mus to say "mum I don't have time for your stupid movies" when she asked us to accompany her.
-->Its easy for us to say "dad you cant match up with me..its a hell new generation" when we know that he was the one who taught us to talk!
-->It feels so proud to go to the popular new year bash venue with your friends..SO MUCH that a call at 12 to our parents isn't important then.And when a friend calls us and says "M at home" .. the first thought that comes to our mind is "ha ! what a loser"
YES he is a loser I mean who thinks about spending it with your parents..what a waste man ! Right ?
-->We are the ones who make those faces while we are on phone with our grandmoms/grand dads and are not reluctant to go with those broad smiles and say "money??".


Guys,Its is sometimes so sensible for us to say all this !
If your parents are around .. Go and give them that bear hug . They deserve it !


P.s : If you too criticized your parents after watching "Taare Zameen par" and gt back home thinking -Arre yaar,bilkul sahi ! Marks ke to peeche hi padh jaate hain ye log !
Then join the gang .
(Thats cos we people are in a habit of relating everything to anything even they arent far off cousins)
And just go and explain your parents that they expecting this from us is just too much !!
-I am sure they'll be proud. Ha !

All those mums and dads..We Love You !
We are shoi :(